Remember the time when you see a jerk that has no looks, no
sense of dress code with his arm over the shoulder of a pretty
and very sweet girl; walking down the street. You think to
yourself, how in the world does he do it? You are a much matter
boyfriend in all fields as compared to the Joker.
Allow me to ask you this.
How would you be as a boyfriend? What would you do to make the
girl fall for you? If you say you can be a better boyfriend,
what would you do different than the joker?
Would you give her flowers? expensive gifts? Have a candle light
dinner with her? Treat her like a queen? Pamper her like no one
else has before?
If you think the above will make you a better boyfriend, you are
watching too much movies.
No one will fall for your. There are too many people that can
give her flowers, spend on expensive gifts, and pamper her. What
make you different? What makes the jerk different?
The jerk might or might not realize it, but he is practicing
this theory called the "Roller-Coaster".
You notice that a roller coaster is not flat. It would be no fun
if it were. A roller coaster is a series of up-and-down motion.
When you go up, you feel relaxed, or scared, when you come down,
you feel excited or panic, exhilarated. And so on. The roller
coaster makes everyone's palm sweat. But people like the roller
coaster because it makes us feel.
You have to be like a roller coaster to your girl. Make her feel
intense happiness when she is around you. How do you make
someone feel that? You make them feel sad first. Make them hurt.
Make them jealous.
Once you have made them hurt enough, go back and beg for their
forgiveness. The more you hurt them, the more you need to plea
for forgiveness. But the more intense the feelings you give
them. And the more the love you will receive once you are
forgiven.
*Please note, when I say hurt them, I mean emotionally. NEVER
abuse anyone physically.
Humans are a strange bunch. We will love the people that can
change our mood. Especially those people that can change our
mood to a happy one. Think of the movies. What differentiates a
good movie from a bad one? A good movie makes the audience feel.
Some movies gives us a happy feeling, some, a fearful feeling or
feelings of adventure, anything! What you want to aim for is to
make your girl feel things.
Many girls say that their Date is Boring because their date are
not making them feel things. Make them Feel. Think of the
feeling you want to give your girl for the day. Then ask
yourself, how you can make her feel what you want her to feel.
Now that your know how to make your girl crazy over you, go out
there and have fun!
About the author:
Steven Chelsey writes self help articles at
selfhelpfreak.50webs.com
